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  • Entirely escapism, most romantic movies involve felonies lol.

    Stalking is the most popular, harassment, sexual harassment, assault, lack of consent.

    …. But it’s all portrayed as romantic. You want to talk about rape culture? The romance films are peak “rape culture”

    Twilight vampires secretly watching you sleep without your consent? Hawt! The guy refusing to take no for an answer? How devoted! The guy just grabbing you and kissing you out of nowhere? Swooooon! My ex inserting herself into my current relationship to wreck it and get back together with me? It MUST be true love. . I assure you, those things are unpleasant in real life, but I’m really curious as to how people think they’re romantic in movies. I don’t get it.










  • Fair statement, but I think it can be viewed from both pieces there.

    Rules vs results can be individually determined and separated.

    But you’re right, my example wasn’t ideal for my argument.

    I do still think that cultural values will determine whether you value “helping your neighbours” and your moral responsibility there.


  • This starts to get into moral relativity vs moral absolution.

    Is it ever moral to kill someone? Is it moral to kill out of a necessity to defend oneself?

    I’m not sure that I really believe there are truly evil people. Don’t get me wrong, I think they exist, but they’re extremely rare (1 in a million type of odds)

    Most people are the hero of their own story, and when you get down to it, they’re just trying to get their needs met. Are they unnecessarily cruel? Maybe, but they’ll have a justification for it. You might not agree with it, but you haven’t walked in their shoes.

    If I have the ability to help friends I consider it my civic duty to do so. That being said, I don’t judge those who don’t help. (Usually) Why don’t I judge them? Because I’m fortunate enough to have the mental fortitude, capacity and ability to help. I wouldn’t judge a friend in a wheelchair for not helping me move into a walk-up apartment, because they mostly can’t. I don’t feel right judging a friend who isn’t in a good headspace to help me right now either.

    I’m not firmly in either camp, morality on some things are relative, but absolute on others.