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  • My friend really needs to learn about this. He works for Intel and does some really involved stuff, I on the other hand am a moronic jackass factory worker.

    No friend, I haven’t the slightest idea what you’re trying to tell me you did if you keep using technical terms.



  • I can’t wait for this to spread to unrelated areas!

    Supermarkets maximizing profit: put ads everywhere and hide the most commonly bought foods!

    Gas stations maximizing profits: unskippable ads on all pumps, plus the pump stops halfway to make you watch another ad.

    Dating apps: oh… They already killed themselves. Swipe swipe swipe swipe. Hide messages. Hide likes. Reduse exposure to profile unless paid member.

    I hate this future.



  • I’m in a similar position, but I think I’m still working through “coming to terms” with my “situation.”

    It’s definitely depressing as I’ve only had 2 real goals in life: be in a loving relationship, and own a home. Both of those are proving to be exceedingly unlikely to happen the older I get.



  • Thank you for being one of the only people to be real about how it’s not a guarantee. You might not find anyone. I see way too much fairy tale thinking and all the “just wait, she’ll come” nonsense.

    Being lonely sucks, being single in a society that requires 2 incomes sucks, but I think being in a shitty relationship just to be in a relationship is worse.


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    38 and I still hate hearing that. I think the people that believe this just got lucky and have some survivorship bias or something.

    If you’re a guy you have to do something. Women will not just walk into your life, you have to actively try to find someone. If you don’t have a circle of friends it’s exponentially more difficult (see recent man vs bear in the woods conversations) as women want absolutely nothing to do with a “strange” man (as in a stranger).

    Online dating is for young people (low 20s) successful people (wealthy travelers) and the very very attractive. If you’re a “typical” guy the experience is soul crushing.


  • I think it’s probably better to have taken action as you’ve learned a lot. People like the person you replied to and myself “know” our limitations but then we don’t do anything so you’re 15 years more advanced in your knowledge and I’m 15 years stagnant no better than I was from the start.