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    9 months ago

    It’s not that simple. Is this for simple sexual gratification? A fantasy? Short-term relationship? Long-term?

    When I was 20, I had my fantasies and had several one-night stands as well with older men. That’s where the attraction ended; it was more of a fantasy/kink, but I held no romantic interest in them.


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    9 months ago

    The issue mostly is with power imbalance, it’s very easy for the older person to use their experience in life to limit the agency of the younger partner, so it takes some work for an age gap relationship to be a healthy one. I’m in one myself, and I do my best to be mindful about this.

    Asian cultures don’t really see it as normal too, tongues were wagging with one of our Singapore president candidates in the recent election; he was 75, she 45.