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Cake day: September 25th, 2023

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  • It wasn’t trying to diminish the atrocity, sorry if it came out that way.

    You did not, not to me at least.

    I just keep the aggressor out of my head when thinking about the victim, they don’t deserve the attention.

    That’s a great way to approach it. I was only speculating on the original commenter’s intent because that’s how I think about it too. I’ve had trauma in my past and it’s shaped who I am today; I reflect on it often. When I see stories of trauma for others I always have the thought about how their trauma is now going to shape their life going forward.

    I guess I’m a little triggered by this specific theme

    With good cause for sure! Harm and trauma don’t take away your agency or humanity, that happens by how others react to you after.