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Cake day: June 7th, 2023

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  • The “text messages” between him and his roommate tho…

    The language is completely different. Vocab, grammar, punctuation, everything

    I just read the “texts” and had the exact same thought. Everything about it seems… off.

    And anyone his age would 100% know that you can’t just “delete this exchange” after giving very specific details that didn’t need to be shared at all.

    Then he claims “idek if it had a serial number”, referring to the gun used, all while being a highly proficient shooter who has likely used this gun for ages, since it’s supposed to be in his family. Makes no sense.

    Assuming he was texting using a modern phone, why are simple autocorrect rules being applied sporadically? You see “I’m” and then “Im”. Autocorrect wouldn’t let that slip.

    Nobody should trust the FBI under Trump, anyway. It wouldn’t surprise me if this was faked, just like the fake MS-13 tattoo on Kilmar Abrego Garcia’s knuckles. The one that Trump defended as being totally real, and the one that was brought up by a journalist during an interview, who was later fired for criticizing Trump.

    What a screwed up timeline. People in the future won’t believe that any of this happened.




  • only reason i might want to have kids is to have people who care about me when i’m old.

    There are a lot of variables that would need to fall into place for that to be a reality, and chances are, you’ll be supporting your kids until you die.

    Not worth the gamble (IMO) in time, energy, and money, if that’s what the hope is.


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    You didn’t ask for it, but my advice is not to have kids, at any age.

    Life is so short, and you’ll never have enough time to do everything you want before you’re too old to.

    So why burden yourself with a kid(s)?

    That assumes the kid(s) is totally healthy and doesn’t grow up to be an asshole, addict, or troublemaker.

    But if your kid(s) ends up with health problems, intellectually slow, or has nightmare behaviour problems, you’ll hate living the rest of your life. Then you’ll resent them, which would suck for everyone.

    And at your husband’s age, you’ll be doing it all alone. And in 20 years, you’ll likely be caring for your husband, so there’s no life, even after this kid(s) becomes an adult.














  • I no longer willingly consume cancer-causing substances.

    Health is something you only need to lose once, and you’re life is forever changed for the worse.

    And neither alcohol or tobacco products bring even an ounce of benefits that could outweigh their risks.

    Plus, tobacco products cause you to smell like absolute shit, and alcohol turns people into idiots or lunatics.

    And I also couldn’t imagine pissing away money on something so unnecessary.

    FWIW, I was a pack-a-day smoker and drank alcohol, so I know both sides. I regret it in hindsight, but teens so stupid things, and that was my stupid thing.



  • These standards have also spread to more common fashion, advertising clothes for ordinary people.

    No doubt.

    If there’s a method for that, that actually works, that would be great.

    First, block and avoid ads. They are poison to the mind. Dropping social media is also strongly suggested.

    It’s hard to not fall prey to marketing companies if ads surround you on a daily basis, and I can’t honestly imagine how difficult it must be for any teen who uses the internet or apps unfiltered. It’s a losing battle if those influences aren’t dealt with first.