I enjoyed this engineering talk

Am I the only one that demands to be called gen y?

Yea, that was some copyright bullshit.

Why? Nothing the user that accessed this did was illegal. Like here’s an open s3 bucket… Can’t prosecute me for that.

Ha, why because they are no longer attractive to him?

Good advice. I also would say for me it was just the speed of going from a match to a Meetup. Text was always dishonest and just spending an hour over a drinks or something told me everything I needed to know. Id rather cast into the strange and know vs getting all the right texts.

Not all people that travel are assholes. And it benefits the world to have cultural exchange.

Yea that’s surprising. I’ve been approached by about 3 companies a week but haven’t followed up so much so maybe it’s just more bullshit listings out there. Hope you find something!

Curious, what level are you and what specialty?

Homophobes lost the culture war around gay folks so now they’ve moved on to the next group they can abuse.

Ahh well if that’s the other shoe dropping. I’m always skeptical of folks that never bring up their flaws in the history. OP if that’s true you should own it, and apologize for those beliefs. It’s possible these people were done with you before the divorce.

Yea, I have been there for several friends that went through this. If it really is how you say then those people kind of suck atm. Maybe ask one why before you write them off though. Better to know for sure vs remaining angry with people.

Good to know, but there was no removing my frustration at the moment of the half dozen I made.

Not if each row is pi!

This is just the Linux way but with… Rest? Seems slow.

Yea, idk maybe I’ll have moments of introspection but the default should be the flippant response I gave. OP, don’t give more then you want to people like that. Tell them to put in the work to be better or just leave them to their pud.

Dissect all ya want. But in the end it usually comes down to exactly that. Why do we have to expend so much mental energy on fools?

Because some boys are little bitches.

I’m sure there’s technical things to consider here. I’d leave it to the app dev to work that out. The point being that removing that choice by default might yield more users.

You’re missing the point. My comment is about induced friction causing people to walk away.