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  • I’m not saying it’s perfect, but it’s definitely not as “backhanded” as the other one. In fact, that “compliment”, especially in the context of the meme, implies they didn’t realize the person is transgender until it was somehow pointed out explicitly, because of the whole “wow, you’re trans?” part.


  • I kinda see your point, but I think context is important here. For many trans people, part of transitioning includes working toward presenting as their identified gender, and that process can take time and effort. So when someone says “you look good for a trans man/woman”, in a clumsy way, it might be meant as recognition of that effort, like saying, “you look exactly how you hoped to". Which is completely different from automatically assuming that all women are stupid for being women.


  • Farid@startrek.websitetomemes@lemmy.worldThank you ^.^
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    1 day ago

    Isn’t this about “you look good for a trans man/woman”?

    “You’re smart for a woman” is just straight up sexist and demeaning, while the former “compliment”, maybe not as flattering to some as the giver intends, does not imply any prejudice.












  • Farid@startrek.websitetoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldPlease, UI designers
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    29 days ago

    You’re not wrong, as it’s your personal subjective experience, which can’t be wrong.
    But the fact that it pisses you off implies that you don’t understand the reason behind it.
    We used to have information-dense UIs before because:

    • devices used to have only large screens with lower resolution.
    • devices were used primarily be specialists for productivity.

    Which means programs had to fit a lot of stuff in very few pixels. Nowadays, vast majority of users are casual, the people of the land, fatfingering their tiny displays. They don’t need a ton of buttons and sliders. In fact, a common user would get overwhelmed by all that, even on the desktop. And while a small amount of people would benefit from a denser UI for the same casual apps, it’s usually not with the effort designing and implementing them.