You forgot to flex your kegals. Then claim dehydration.

Oh there are studies on it, at least the only one that matters :p (Mythbusters e142)

Thank you!

I have zero context this graph is confusing af but also says so much

I just don’t know how to translate it lul

You’re gonna have to dig that puzzle and answer up and challenge lemmy properly!

You can’t say things like that here! We are a bunch of nerds who cling so tightly to online privacy and morals it is practically our personality!

Nah it is weird, in the sense that most people really won’t put in that much energy to avoid a site even if it was to gather information. It’s atypical.

Thank you so much for pointing out my blind spots. You’re 100% right and my making light of it was insensitve and disrespectful. (I’m replying this to both of you so you have the notification, as both posts gave me a lot to reflect on. )

Thank you so much for pointing out my blind spots. You’re 100% right and my making light of it was insensitve and disrespectful. (I’m replying this to both of you so you have the notification, as both posts gave me a lot to reflect on. )

Ok so I did more reading because the wiki alone was already fascinating. I mean the VP to Hoover, seriously really only white men for nearly 100 years, and the assimilation thing seemed weird to me. How is giving up your land and heritage a good thing? Well it wasn’t, at least for his tribe. They almost lost everything even their language.

Anyway I found this article really fascinating but the end gave me a chuckle

When asked on the phone how members of the Kaw Nation feel about Curtis today, a representative said it wasn’t her place to say. Then she hung up.

WaPo Article

And all this started cuz his grandma was like fuck off don’t come home, go assimilate. She encouraged it and he was even sent to live with his white grandparents as a teenager. Maybe he was an asshole and that was her excuse or she really believed it idk but damn.

He remained the only mixed-race vice president in American history until the inauguration of Kamala Harris in 2021

That’s an aggressively white history, damn. It’s almost like they were trying or something.

Damn right it is 🤘

Oh my gosh I love the name too!

I love these stories! I love that he stuck around long enough to turn it around haha, I hope your party gets to drink for free after all that bs

In my experience if you’re only finding one or two apartments in your price range out of a ton…

1. You can’t afford to live there. Everything costs more. Sales tax, gas, groceries, water, all entertainment, etc

2. Those places you can afford probably don’t exist or are cheap for a very good reason (bad area/property)

I suggest looking around closer to you or where you have a saftey net or support, then look in those areas. Research the city look for lgbtq events or clubs etc. I hope you find your little haven !

I’m sorry this is so off topic to the community but this meme reminded me how much I hate that advice. What if I only want sex too?! It didn’t prepare me for ANYTHING. It treats teenagers like one dimensional objects where girls only want romance and commitment and guys only want sex and will behave like a movie villian to get it. When reality doesn’t match it gets all disregarded

So PSA not good advice

Thank you for explaining why so beautifully. I tried watching the show and while it was very well done, for whatever reason I just wasn’t getting into it. But all people ever say is how great it is and I was bummed I was missing out. I have seen enough of the show to see the threads leading to what you described. I understand now why it is so highly praised.

Wow looking into this and it sounds like they did that show dirty. Completely gone from the app and s2 only released in certain countries on prime? Did it hit a little too close to home on the strike??

Check out bunheads. Same creator and I remember it feeling a LOT like that show. Like she must have done it so soon after Gilmore girls. It’s only a season but it was cute. It might still be on hulu.

And yes seconding marvelous Ms Maisel.

Haha figured you would. I hope you don’t need this tip for the future!

I was looking for this post! Rent free in my mind for over a decade now.

Highly recommend. Weeb falls in love with a Japanese classmate and asks 4chan for advice. It is a whole saga of cringe.