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  • The internet isn’t. Goverments are.

    Seems to be mostly because VPNs make it a bit harder (but by far not impossible, no matter what the ads say) to link online activity to a specific person. They say they need that, as well as weaker encryption to find and punish illegal activities. Mostly related to terrorism or children. I’ll leave it to the more conspiracy minded folks to figure out the actual reason.






  • dfyxAtoich_iel@feddit.orgich🟨🟥iel
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    7 days ago

    Noch schöner ist, wenn der Zoll-Zombie im Schneckentempo in den Nebenraum schlurft, um deine 2 Cent Wechselgeld aus dem Safe zu holen, während du eigentlich gerne jetzt gehen würdest, um nicht nochmal eine Stunde auf die nächste Bahn nach Hause zu warten. Und nein, auf Wechselgeld verzichten geht nicht, das wäre ja Bestechung.

    Ich war so sauer, ich hätte denen das blöde Kleingeld am liebsten in ihren protzigen Koi-Teich geschmissen, aber da haben mir dann doch die Fische Leid getan.



  • Am I supposed to tell them I really really wanna kms right now?

    Yes. If you don’t, they can’t help you.

    Nah, they’d lock me up lmfao

    Not if you are honest about it. Talking openly about it instead of just doing it is a good sign that you might be ready to fix stuff.

    Can’t even tell my mom cuz she’d get mad at me…

    That’s not normal and not healthy. Tell your therapist. They might be able to find a way to get you out of an unhealthy environment, at least for a while.


  • Not me but someone close to me:

    • There is a difference between “ready for therapy” and “ready for change”. Some people will sit in therapy for years but never see much progress because they are so stuck in doing or thinking something that holds them back.
    • Your therapist will tell you things that don’t make sense to you. Listen to them anyway. If they tell you something that seems impossible, don’t ignore it, ask how you can do that. If they tell you something that seems useless, try it anyway, then report back if it doesn’t work and be open for an explanation for why it didn’t work.
    • Be brutally honest. Your therapist won’t be able to help you unless you tell them exactly how bad your situation is. If you spend 90% of your day in bed and tell your therapist you’re doing okay, they won’t be able to correctly identify what kind of help you need.
    • It is completely normal to miss some of your goals. Therapy takes time and nobody will judge you if you take longer than others. Figuring out how much you should push yourself and when you need a break is hard. Either way, don’t be angry at yourself when something doesn’t work out. As long as you tried, you’re fine.
    • Most of your problems are in your head. That doesn’t mean they aren’t real. It doesn’t mean they don’t hurt. It doesn’t mean they aren’t difficult to overcome. It just means that the only person who can solve them is you. A therapist can explain how to solve them but they can’t change your thoughts or your habits.

  • dfyxAtoich_iel@feddit.orgich🟨🟥iel
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    7 days ago

    Wenn sie denn wenigstens im Tracking ankündigen würden, welchen Betrag sie gewürfelt haben, das wär schön.

    Ich hab auch schon Kamerazubehör aus Japan bestellt, mir ausgerechnet, dass es etwa 80€ Einfuhrumsatzsteuer werden und noch mit 20€ Gebühren gerechnet. Am Ende wollte der DHL-Mensch dann insgesamt 140€ und so viel hatte ich nicht im Haus. Also hat er mein Paket wieder mitgenommen und ich musste den ganzen Tanz zwei Tage später nochmal aufführen. In die Filiale umleiten und da mit Karte bezahlen war natürlich auch nicht möglich.



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    8 days ago

    They actually do have the sensible explanation but for some reason not as the top one. Sorry for not checking that the link UD gave me actually leads to the correct explanation. It instead shows the full list even though the link contains the correct ID.



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    8 days ago

    Oh damn, Urban Dictionary fucked up the link. The hymen explanation is further down on the same page and I specifically clicked that share link and the shortened link even includes the ID for the correct explanation but somehow when expanding the link they just show you the full list without even scrolling down to the right section. Thanks for nothing, I guess.






  • dfyxAtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlHow did your country vote?
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    14 days ago

    What we do know is that the full title includes “as the Gravest Crime against Humanity” and I can fully respect countries having reservations against that when there are other similarly horrible crimes. I don’t know why Germany abstained but I figure that some people might be pretty angry at them if they declared the slave trade was worse than the holocaust.


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    The “Gravest Crime against Humanity” part honestly explains why so many countries abstained.

    The slave trade was an absolute atrocity and certainly one of the gravest crimes against humanity but should we label it as the gravest crime? Do we really need to introduce a ranking between slavery, the holocaust and dozens of other genocides instead of agreeing that they are/were all bad without picking one as the worst?