Well, I have two of the four at least.
Shadowedcross
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How much does your parents understand you vs how much do you understand your parents? If you have children: How much do you understand your children, do you think they understand you?English
3·3 months agoNeither as much as I’d like. My mum died 5 years ago, and my dad is in his late 70s and likely suffering from dementia. So between that and my own issues, there’s not really much opportunity to develop our understanding of each other.
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Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world•Anon's neighbors have chickensEnglish
2·3 months agoMakes sense, I myself live in the countryside, so I haven’t really had to put up with the pigeon density found in cities.
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Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world•Anon's neighbors have chickensEnglish
4·3 months agoThat’s fair. I think I too would hate something if it shat everywhere in my workplace.
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Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world•Anon's neighbors have chickensEnglish
6·3 months agoI’m curious, why do you hate pigeons?
I’m not bi, but I can still appreciate masculine beauty. Beauty is beauty, after all, regardless of someone’s gender.

Well, I do like free stuff.
And what about people who feel exhausted by every type of social interaction? Because that’s my experience. I’m not saying it cannot change over time, but labels can still be useful. When someone describes themselves as an introvert, nobody assumes they are drained by every single interaction. People generally understand it as a way of describing how someone responds to strangers or groups, rather than how they respond to all interaction.
There is nothing wrong with that. A label can help someone express a pattern they recognise in themselves without believing they are trapped by it. It is simply a way of communicating how they tend to feel in certain situations. Many people adopt mindsets that feel natural or comfortable without assuming those mindsets define them forever.
I think my issue isn’t so much understanding them, but remembering them, especially when there’s a lot. My ADHD simply doesn’t let me remember so much information at once, maybe if I spent a good amount of time reading the rules, memorising them, preparing myself, etc.
This is why I refuse to play boardgames, even though my partner and our friends really like playing tabletop simulator. I think it’s a fun combination of my ADHD and anxiety. The ADHD struggling to understand instructions, and my anxiety not wanting to embarrass myself by being unable to.
Shadowedcross@sh.itjust.workstoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•What would yours be?English
6·4 months agoI have ADHD, so an energy drink, and an infinite list of things that I need to start/continue/finish.
Please put an NSFW tag on this. I was on the train and when I saw this I had to start furiously masterbating. Everyone else gave me strange looks and were saying things like “what the fuck” and “call the police”. I dropped my phone and everyone around me saw this image. Now there is a whole train of men masterbating together at this one image. This is all your fault, you could have prevented this if you had just tagged this post NSFW.
I’ve never related to a bear so much since I watched Winnie-the-Pooh as a child.
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World News@lemmy.world•Two hours a night: Japan PM’s sleep schedule prompts concerns about work-life balanceEnglish
112·4 months agoMargaret Thatcher being your hero tells me everything I need to know about you. I feel bad for the Japanese populace.
I’m in a hetero relationship and I use it. To me it just seems like a much more descriptive term, since they’re literally your partner in life’s highs and lows.
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3DPrinting@lemmy.world•So, did a new printer drop? LOLEnglish
30·5 months agoIt annoys me to no end just how prevalent Bambu is.
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World News@lemmy.world•Maye Musk, mother of the world’s richest man: ‘There’s nothing a Musk can’t do’English
2·5 months agoThere’s more proof of what Elon can’t do than what he can. He’s an incompetent, disgusting, shitstain of a human being. The only thing he has going for him is his money, otherwise he just likes to pretend like he’s the smartest in the room, like a stereotypical redditor.
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•The Rapture could have happened, but nobody would know because everyone got left behind
5·6 months agoThe problem is that a lot of those people base their entire moral framework around their religion, so if they think they were abandoned by their god, they might go apeshit and lose any actual morals they had left.
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memes@lemmy.world•"I just got the viral [INSERT YOUR PRODUCT NAME HERE]"
1·7 months agoI think it’s because it has the Dubai name attached to it, and also because it’s trendy, so they know they can charge a lot.

This is a horribly depressing chart.