🎵 When the jaws open wide
And there’s more jaws inside
That’s a moray 🎵
In most cases those defederated instances are hosting hostile or pedo content.
Except there has been (still is?) all the drama between the tankie instances and the big instances defederating from each other that I was happy to sidestep by joining a smaller instance.
When I had to choose at the end, I wound up closing the game and thinking about it for a couple days before finally going back. Bae forever.
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Terry Pratchett, Lords and Ladies