• NekoKoneko@lemmy.world
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      16 days ago

      I think the sentiment kicking off the husband explaining should have been “men are dangerous.” Then the shark metaphor makes sense, because enough men are dangerous and a low-probability but nonzero outcome for choosing incorrectly is so severe (rape, death, kidnapping) that it makes sense to have a prejudicial heuristic to treat them all as dangerous until reasonably proven otherwise.

      “All men are dangerous” is an absolute statement and just poor semantic logic, so yeah, this is confusing.

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        16 days ago

        I hate statements like this, where they clearly only say part of what they mean, as a way to make it more sensationalist. I would bet what the original OP was actually meaning is “Act as if all men could be dangerous”. Personally I find that an understandable take, when the minority is so dangerous to you what else can you do.

        But instead they choose to phrase it “All men are dangerous”. Indefensibly prejudice against half of the population for something outside of their control.

        The post says they know not all men are dangerous, but that doesn’t mean it’s a good saying, just that they are knowingly stating something they know to be untrue. The only reason to leave the quiet part out of the statement is rage bait.

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      16 days ago

      Racial profiling, but instead it’s about gender expression.

      Really, the critique is/should be about how there isn’t enough societal pressure saying “Don’t be a fucking rapist” to men in general. Unfortunately that’s hard to change, it takes time and energy and there’s a significant amount of pushback. So it’s easier to be cautious with how you interact with strange (and rationally, familiar) men. There is a statistically significant non-zero chance they will seek to do women harm. So stating “Men are dangerous”, while not especially helpful in combating that very idea, is technically true.

      • stickly@lemmy.world
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        there isn’t enough societal pressure saying “Don’t be a fucking rapist” to men

        When we had much stronger pressure we called it chauvinism. “Men are stronger and better and in full control and you are a bad person to abuse that power over women”. And even with that pressure, women were still raped because some people don’t respond to soft pressure like normal functional humans.

    • athatet@lemmy.zip
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      16 days ago

      Wait, like, none at all? You aren’t even able to infer anything from like, context or something?

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        Critical thinking and context aren’t good indicators of test scores, and they’re not taught in schools much.

    • Forester@pawb.social
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      That all men are inherently dangerous. Apparently we are sharks. I thought it was bears last time…