• Dadd Volante@sh.itjust.works
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    3 months ago

    Counterpoint to all the young people: Never listen to ANYONE who tells you not to follow your passion.

    It’s better to try, fail and learn than it is to grow old and wonder what could have been

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      3 months ago

      Trying and failing with a lot of passions means a lot of debt and lost time. Student debt happens to be debt that you can’t discharge through bankruptcy either.

      But you ignored the central point - for most people, taking a thing that they love doing for enjoyment and turning it into something that they have to do every single day or risk being homeless sucks the love right out of it.

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        Do you have any data to back up your second point? I know dozens of people that have made careers out of passions that they discovered in high school and college. And those are only the people that I’ve asked about it.

        But we could expand a little bit and make your claim more likely to be true, and also more reasonable. For example, if Jimmy loves playing the guitar, he could try to form a rock band and get successful enough to make a living touring. That’s kind of hard. Possible but the odds are against him. So he might try that and later transition to some other job that’s still in entertainment. This example, and generally the shift from a single job to something else that’s related to it, is something that young people should expect. Focusing too much on one area could be a weakness if you have to change jobs later. And in general, the majority of workers will make major changes to their careers at least once in their lives.

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        No it doesn’t. Didn’t for me. I lived in a twenty year old Ford explorer for almost a year pursuing mine. Didn’t succeed or make it big, but I wouldn’t have traded it for the world. Not every dream relies on college loans, dude. Not if you’re an artist.

        I’d go so far as to say man, many dreams people have don’t require a degree.

        And if they do? DO IT ANYWAY. I attended two years of college for film. Never got a career out of it. Still paying off my debt. Still don’t regret ANY of it.

        Still getting by on the strings of my butt hairs in my 40s. Still wouldn’t take any of it back.

        Never sucked the love for either dream out of it. Did I get depressed? Sure. Did I go through a lot of shit and a lot of disappointment? Definitely. I’m two years out from failing in my latest attempt at pursuing one of my many dreams. You couldn’t pay me all the money in the world to take it back.

        You’re speaking to me… about me. About my experiences and telling me how it made me feel. Sorry my dude, I can’t agree with you.

        Take those chances. The memories are worth it. The stories are worth it. The lessons you learn along the way are definitely worth it, homie