This is a question intended solely for the adult audience, both tagged as NSFW and with a NSFW warning in the title. I don’t see a rule prohibiting those, and I hope it’s allowed.

Not talking about rare because taboo, but ones people may not even ever think of when hearing “fetish”.

I have a major fetish for… apartments. Housing. Generally interior of buildings. It’s been born out of my socioeconomic situation and continues. I find the idea of having sex in a nice, non-claustophobic space extremely allouring. If I see a glimpse of a nice interior via a window, it’s where my thoughts immediately go. I see a nice plant in the window? I fantasize about how good the rest of the place looks like and how hot it would be to do the do in it. Nice lightning? Same thoughts. Tall windows implying high ceilings and more space? Guess what… I thought I’d appreciate living alone, but my apartment is claustrophobic, which is something I thought I wouldn’t mind, since I grew up in worse, but it affects my mental health. Fantasizing about having sex in more modern, more spacious places is not only an escapism, but actually turns me on a lot. I hate that most people don’t seem to be able to host. I would probably give a chance to someone I otherwise wouldn’t consider if they had a nice place - to picture how strong the fetish has become over time.

I’m curious about other people’s. Share away.

  • ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    1 year ago

    Gotta be penectomy. Part of me still suspects it’s a bit of some form. It’s nothing like as unexpected as what you posted, (respect to houseplant fantasizing) and it makes sense as an extreme form of orgasm denial, but… y’all do be removing your dicks, huh. It was kind of the one that desensitised me early on, like not much seems that weird to me now.

      • Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone
        2·
        1 year ago

        Me too! Me toooooo!!! I spent so much time looking for those pictures, before I realized I was simply female and then spent even more time looking for vaginoplasties. I’ve seen enough now. I’m pretty certain, though I dont need to make the decision soon anyway.

        • violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone
          2·
          1 year ago

          Same. I spoke to my surgeon about salmacian/PPV hoping it would be an outright ‘no’ to make the decision easier and his response was “oh, yeah, I heard they do that on the West coast. If you give me a year to study it I would be able to perform it on you.” So now just waiting to make a decision again.