• Paper_Phrog@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Congratulations 👏. Can I ask, how you view nudity and you and/or your partner being naked in front of each other? Genuinely curious!

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      2 days ago

      While we don’t make a habit of it, both of us walk in front of the other when getting out of the shower or getting dressed for the day. It’s just a part of life, nothing sexual about it. We’ve also given various small compliments about each other, generally after one of us gets a tattoo, but we have both discussed than anything about each other genitals is just weird and unwanted. We really are the greatest for each other. 😂

      Having said that, she asked me to post a picture of her breasts a lil while ago, in my post history, but that’s the most sexual thing either of us have suggested. And it was just taking a few photos than a movie, not like past GFs that wanted to turn that in to sex.

      Now I’m curious myself, is nudity a hurdle for you? Fully valid and no judgement, just wondering. :)

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        2 days ago

        Thanks for your story. I find it very interesting! This is just something I wondered about, whether it would be aversion or just a disinterest. I don’t know many ace/aro people that well to ask.

        No, I am neither and am in a relationship that involves it all. We are very comfortable with each other haha.

        Glad you found your other half.